In this post, you will learn how to stop worrying about mistakes and start playing with poise. This is so important because everybody at some point starts to play afraid, they start worrying about making mistakes, they tense up, you might feel that you are overthinking, you’re hesitating out on the ice and you are playing safe. So anytime this is happening to you don’t worry it happens to everybody. It will often happen to you in situations where you are facing a lot of adversity, things aren’t going your way, the coach is yelling at you, you’re feeling a lot of pressure, not getting the playing time you want. These kinds of situations can really spark this fear of mistake mentality. 3 Effective Ways to Start Playing with Poise These 3 tips will help you be confident out on the ice so that you’re going out making plays and trying things and you are very poised and confident while you play. These 3 tips work! We use them with our athletes all the time, but you have to apply them. 1. Accept & Let Go the Possibility of Mistakes The first big thing that I want you guys to understand to start playing with poise is that you actually have to accept and let go that you might make some mistakes. Completely counterintuitive, what most people will tell you is to stop thinking about mistakes, don’t worry about it and forget about it. Well, how the heck are you supposed to do that. That’s not a real thing. And by doing that you just thinking of it more. And it makes you tense up even more and get more worried and stay worried. So that’s not a real thing and it doesn’t help. So, what does work? First and most important, the number one thing, is to accept it, accept that you might. It’s not saying that you will make mistakes, it’s accepting that you might. Take, for example, I wish I could tell you going into your next game and you will score, you will get the outcomes you want, you will perform well, and you won’t make mistakes. But I can’t tell you that no one can tell you that. You can’t really tell yourself that because you are human, and we all make mistakes. We can’t guarantee outcomes and results, not necessarily anyways, we could try but often doing that will make you more afraid and it’s not going to allow you to get over that fear of making mistakes. The way I like to phrase this is, it’s a feeling part. So, you’re not actually doing anything. Acceptance is not something you do, its something you feel. Usually, the thing you are worried about the most is turning the puck over, making mistakes, feels unacceptable. So that is why it is so important to be willing to accept it. It’s not an ability problem here. It’s not [...]