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Stop Seeking Praise

If you seek praise and avoid criticism (like most people), then you probably get worried about what others think (like most people). You need to stop because this will hold you back from performing at your potential and your personal well-being will suffer. This video explains why this is and what you can do about it.

Stop Seeking Praise2020-08-19T18:26:07-04:00

Mathew Maione – Paving Your Own Path

If you want to pave your own path then you need incredible levels of certainty and trust in yourself. Mathew Maione’s story is my (Dr. Cassidy Preston) favourite example of this. The highlights of his story include: Started out as an undersized offensive defence Played on one of top minor hockey teams 12th round OHL draft pick Made the jump from U18 hockey to 3 years in the OHL 4 Years at U of PEI where he finished his undergraduate degree Navigated the professional leagues overseas to end up in the KHL Making the KHL All-Star Game Winning the Spengler Cup Currently on 9th Year of Professional Hockey and Still Counting Most people think of Sydney Crosby or Connor McDavid when you think of the path to professional hockey, but they are the exception, not the norm. I believe Maione’s story is one of the best examples of what it takes to pave your own path towards a successful professional hockey career. Enjoy the podcast.

Mathew Maione – Paving Your Own Path2023-03-06T18:04:40-05:00

Pre-Game Visualization for Forwards

Visualization is an extremely effective mindset strategy that can be used to block out “the noise”, set your intentions, and get in the zone prior to getting on the ice. Listen to these visualization scripts above to help guide you on how to use visualization, and be sure to click here to check out five tips on how to enhance your visualization.

Pre-Game Visualization for Forwards2023-06-24T11:19:22-04:00

Stop Playing Too Safe

So many athletes play too safe ⚠️, and, therefore, they are holding themselves back from reaching their potential ? When you recognize the distinction between playing smart assertive and playing too safe - this can make a huge difference ? Focus on ? and track ✍️ the type of plays you make - if you are making too many 'safe' plays, then make a goal to get down to zero 'safe' plays! Remember, when you are playing smart assertive, you will still make mistakes (because you are human, not perfect, like the best players in the world). But don't let these mistakes make you start playing too safe ⚠️ again. Use them as learning opportunities ✅, get back out there?, and keep playing smart assertive ? Lastly, lots of people and coaches ? will still suggest you play 'safe' - what they mean is smart assertive. No one wants you to play TOO safe. Instead, they are just reminding you NOT to play recklessly! Want to play with more confidence? Download our Free 20 Tips to Boost Confidence PDF

Stop Playing Too Safe2020-02-27T19:42:41-05:00

Optimize the Car Ride Home

Detailed and Accurate Self-Reflection is essential to being an Elite Athlete, but so many athletes are missing out on this important learning opportunity - instead, their reflections sound like "I don't know..." or "Good we won..." Here are 3 proven ways ? to improve the car ride home and the self-reflection process: 1 - It's Non-Negotiable "I don't know" is NOT ❌ an option. If you are unsure - then guess!! You can not become self-aware if you are not self-reflecting. So you might struggle to reflect effectively at first, but if you don't try you won't improve and this will really limit both your improvement as an athlete and your mindset! If you want to be an elite athlete then I believe it is UNACCEPTABLE to not engage in reflection 2 - Be Accurate ? Don't be too hard on yourself, but also, don't be too easy on yourself. Instead, accurately reflect on the things you did well and the things you can work on. Parents - this is where your job can be tough. Probe, ask questions and be patient - your job is to help them become more accurate - if you just tell them what they did wrong then they are not learning how to accurately self-reflect. 3- Be Detailed & Specific ? Ask specific questions and encourage detailed responses with examples. Vague statements like "it was good" don't optimize the learning experience. Instead, you want to give detailed examples of what you did well (positively reinforcing these) and what you could work on. If you are interested in learning more - we do offer our CEP Mastermind Program (Clike Here to Learn More) mastermind program that includes a weekly parent call that elaborates on tips like this one and you can ask questions directly with me.

Optimize the Car Ride Home2020-01-31T14:07:16-05:00

There is NOTHING Holding You Back – There is NO Leash

If you feel like something is holding you back from playing at your potential - you might be worried about what the coach thinks, you might doubt yourself, or you feel afraid to make mistakes - then you want to learn how to let all that go and play FREE! Here is a clip from our CEP Mastermind Program that gives you some tips on how to let go of things holding you back and just go out and play. 1 - Filter Out Others. Including COACHES. Your opinion matters most. You have to know who you are and how you want to play. You can care, but not be worried about what others think. 2 - There is NO Leash. Coaches might be able to limit your playing time, but you decide how you play when you are out there. If you feel there is a leash on you that is holding back - guess what?! There is NO LEASH! This reality check can help you play free again! 3 - Sometimes it's your own inner doubt that is holding you back. But at the same time, you have an inner voice that knows what you are capable of. So which voice are you going to listen to? And which voice is actually true? I'll tell you - it's the one that believes in you. Tell the other voice to screw off! Let us know if you find these tips helpful! If you have any interest in learning more about the CEP Mastermind Program or any of our other programs send us a message.

There is NOTHING Holding You Back – There is NO Leash2019-11-22T15:52:12-05:00

Matt Marquardt – The Mindset Needed to go from Minor to PRO Hockey

Matt Marquardt had a rocky transition from minor midget to junior hockey, but the lessons he learned in these years helped him go from not being selected in the OHL draft, to being drafted to the NHL, putting up back to back 40 goal seasons in the QMHL, and going on to his successful 12 year pro career - which is still ongoing! In this podcast, Matt shares his story and sheds light on many important mental skills that every player needs to make the jump from minor to junior hockey, and from junior to pro hockey! We dive into the importance of off-ice training, patiently preparing for your opportunities, treating practices like games, and understanding how junior and pro hockey is a business.  Leadership has also been a big part of Matt’s career. He learned important lessons from his coach Ted Nolan. Matt’s won championships, been a team captain on numerous teams, and a player-coach all at the pro level! He shares his insights on creating a winning team culture, getting players to think the same way, and fostering confidence as a team.  Enjoy the podcast!

Matt Marquardt – The Mindset Needed to go from Minor to PRO Hockey2019-11-09T14:33:32-05:00

Stop Worrying About Mistakes & Start Playing with Poise

In this post, you will learn how to stop worrying about mistakes and start playing with poise. This is so important because everybody at some point starts to play afraid, they start worrying about making mistakes, they tense up, you might feel that you are overthinking, you’re hesitating out on the ice and you are playing safe. So anytime this is happening to you don’t worry it happens to everybody. It will often happen to you in situations where you are facing a lot of adversity, things aren’t going your way, the coach is yelling at you, you’re feeling a lot of pressure, not getting the playing time you want. These kinds of situations can really spark this fear of mistake mentality.  3 Effective Ways to Start Playing with Poise These 3 tips will help you be confident out on the ice so that you’re going out making plays and trying things and you are very poised and confident while you play.  These 3 tips work! We use them with our athletes all the time, but you have to apply them. 1. Accept & Let Go the Possibility of Mistakes The first big thing that I want you guys to understand to start playing with poise is that you actually have to accept and let go that you might make some mistakes. Completely counterintuitive, what most people will tell you is to stop thinking about mistakes, don’t worry about it and forget about it. Well, how the heck are you supposed to do that.  That’s not a real thing. And by doing that you just thinking of it more. And it makes you tense up even more and get more worried and stay worried. So that’s not a real thing and it doesn’t help. So, what does work? First and most important, the number one thing, is to accept it, accept that you might. It’s not saying that you will make mistakes, it’s accepting that you might. Take, for example, I wish I could tell you going into your next game and you will score, you will get the outcomes you want, you will perform well, and you won’t make mistakes. But I can’t tell you that no one can tell you that.  You can’t really tell yourself that because you are human, and we all make mistakes. We can’t guarantee outcomes and results, not necessarily anyways, we could try but often doing that will make you more afraid and it’s not going to allow you to get over that fear of making mistakes. The way I like to phrase this is, it’s a feeling part. So, you’re not actually doing anything. Acceptance is not something you do, its something you feel. Usually, the thing you are worried about the most is turning the puck over, making mistakes, feels unacceptable. So that is why it is so important to be willing to accept it. It’s not an ability problem here. It’s not [...]

Stop Worrying About Mistakes & Start Playing with Poise2019-11-01T16:08:22-04:00