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Visualization for Defence

Visualization is an extremely effective mindset strategy that can be used to block out "the noise", set your intentions, and get in the zone prior to getting on the ice. Listen to these visualization scripts above to help guide you on how to use visualization, and be sure to click here to check out five tips on how to enhance your visualization.

Visualization for Defence2023-06-24T11:19:13-04:00

‘Jump’ into the Zone

Imagine someone on a dock, they are hesitating to jump in. They are worried that it is too cold, so they dip their toe in. They might even jump in, but they get right back out. This person is not swimming and certainly not enjoying themselves. Alternatively, what you want to do is get on the dock, run full speed, jump in, and enjoy swimming. This is a relatable analogy that I use to simplify the mental game. Instead of being the person that is hesitating and has a head full of inner conflict, you want to clear the noise and ‘jump’ into the zone. You either do it or you don’t. The challenge of being on the dock is there can a lot of inner chatter - including: Self-doubt Overthinking Worrying about what others think Holding on to the past, or Worrying about the future The bottom line is if you lack alignment within your thoughts, feelings, and actions, you end up losing the ability to just be in the flow. So here are 3 steps to align your thoughts, feeling, and actions, so that you can ‘jump’ into the zone and achieve Consistent Elite Performance. STEP 1: Name the Noise The key here is becoming more aware of your inner dialog. The negative self-talk or inner noise that holds us back is most commonly related to: Results Challenges What Others Think Once you get better at naming the noise, then you also want to measure it. This gives you a baseline to work from. STEP 2: Prepare to Jump Acceptance is the fundamental concept to getting centred and clearing the noise. Accept that you might lose. Accept that you might get uncomfortable. Accept that you might not be liked by everyone. It is a willingness problem, but when you truly get perspective and accept the range of results you optimize the probability to achieve the intended results. The four fundamental tools our athletes use to prepare to jump include: Unique Alter Ego 10 Second Reset Routine Personalized Mental Scorecard Imagery with Coping Planning for Adversity STEP 3: Jump into the Water This analogy boils down to being aware, then choosing to jump in. You can feel the difference. When you are stuck on the dock you have an internal conflict between your thoughts, feelings, and actions. But when you jump in the water you can feel the alignment. You are in a mental state that is: Connected to the love the game Appreciates the opportunity to grow Prepared for the ups and downs of competition You are fully in the water. If want 1-on-1 coaching to help you ‘jump’ into the water just click the link below to book in your free 1-on-1 intro session. Book Now

‘Jump’ into the Zone2023-06-24T11:15:59-04:00

Coach Adam Carter

Every athlete plays the “What if?” game. It’s one thing to ask “What if I won that game?” But it’s another thing to ask “What if I didn’t let fear hold me back?” I remember when I first did this when I was 8 years old playing hockey. I was in the dressing room, putting on my Stoney Creek Stars jersey, while my coach was creating a list of players who wanted to play goalie. Growing up a Leafs fan, I adored Curtis Joseph and Felix Potvin. I always wanted to play goalie and I wanted to put my name forward. But I was scared. So I said I didn’t want to. What if I decided to play goalie? Looking back at it, I let fear hold me back from doing what I wanted. The fear of losing. The fear of not being as good as others. The fear of embarrassing myself in the net. All this fear held me back from doing what I wanted. This wasn’t the only time I let fear and doubt influence my action. In high-school, I tried out for the football team and made it. Our coach told me that I would get to play on both sides of the ball - offence and defence. I was pumped. But I broke my hand, missed most of the season, and sat on the sidelines for all practices and games. Before I knew it, fear and doubt crept back into my head. Having been out for so long I lost my confidence to make plays and I was no longer aggressive on the field. For the rest of my high-school years, I didn’t play again, because I was scared of getting re-injured. It was another situation that I envisioned myself enjoying and thriving in, but I let fear hold me back and I never pulled the trigger on playing again. Situations like these quickly became a pattern. And patterns quickly become habits. I felt deja-vu from my experience in high-school when I went to try out for the Canadian Bobsleigh Program. I was coming off another major injury (torn pectoral muscle), and felt fear creeping in that I wouldn’t be able to perform at my best. I went to the tryouts, but never actually tried out - I sat on the sidelines, refusing to pull the trigger and jump in. I used my injury as an excuse to cover up my lack of confidence, and lost out on another opportunity that I look back on and think, what could have been if I didn’t let fear hold me back? It wasn’t until I transitioned to tennis that I experienced a shift in my mindset. There was no longer room for fear. In team sports, I hid behind others or used injuries as an excuse. Now I had nobody to hide behind, and no injury to use as an excuse. Fear stood in front of me, and I had no choice but to attack [...]

Coach Adam Carter2022-11-08T12:08:07-05:00

Fear Mindset vs. Attack Mindset

Check out this video on the Fear Mindset vs. Attack Mindset. Fear can be paralyzing. Fear of mistakes, fear of failure, fear of letting others down, or fear of not meeting expectations; Whatever it is, it holds us back from just trusting our capabilities and attacking what we want. In most sports, and other areas of life, it pays to have an attacking mindset: In sports like hockey, soccer, and basketball, this often means taking the puck or ball and attacking the net While in tennis, golf, baseball, or softball, this means not being afraid to fail and fully committing to the shot In life, this means having that important conversation, putting yourself out there, or doing anything else related to going after your dreams. Follow these 3 Steps to go from a Fear Mindset to an Attacking Mindset: STEP 1: Differentiate Fear vs. Attack vs. Reckless You want to move from a fear mindset to an attack mindset, but you don’t want to end up being reckless. Here is a breakdown of the key traits within each of the 3 mental states: 1. Fear Mental State: Afraid to make mistakes, doubting ability, worrying about results. 2. Attack Mental State: Willing to make mistakes, trusting capability, being in the moment. 3. Reckless Mental State: Carelessness, over-compensating. We suggest you write out what each of these mental states looks like for you to make it clear how you want to show up. STEP 2: Going from Fear to Attack To go from the fear to attack mindset, you have to align your thoughts, feeling and actions. The following two concepts are key to helping you get that alignment: 1. Attack Mistakes > Fear Mistakes: You are going to make mistakes regardless of what mindset you are in, but the attack mindset will generally not be as harmful of a result, not look as bad, and it will serve as a learning opportunity. 2. Thinking Long-Term: The fear mindset could be better in the short-term, but the attack mindset is better in the long-term. While reading this, you might cognitively understand these points, but you need to have the emotional feeling to match or the behaviours won’t come consistently. So don’t just read this and nod your head. Make sure you reflect and look at your game; Look at when you are playing in the attack mindset vs fear mindset. Truly reflect on which mindset serves you better. The goal is to feel yourself break through the fear and fully arrive in the attack mindset. STEP 3: Lock it In To lock in the attack mental state consistently, you need to be aware, set a high standard for yourself, and have the tools to get into the state. Awareness comes from reading this and reflecting - not just once, but consistently. You should be aiming to be in the attack mindset 95% of the time [...]

Fear Mindset vs. Attack Mindset2024-06-13T13:52:50-04:00

The 7 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make in Youth Sport

When it comes to sports, parents have the ability to either help or hinder their child's mental game. Here are the 7 Biggest Mistakes Parents make in Youth Sport: 1. Lose Sight of Why It can be easy to disconnect from your why. If you can stay connected to what you really want for your child out of the sporting experience (i.e., life skills, growth, and enjoyment), then supporting their mental game comes a lot easier. 2. Screw Up the Car Ride Home Ask your child how and when they want to have post- practice and game reflections. When reflecting, the child should speak first and the most. 3. Shoulds and Expectations Your child is the one playing, so they need to take ownership of their game plan and how they mentally prepare to play at their best. Don't project your expectations onto them. 4. Not Managing Your Emotions If you want your child to go out there and be relaxed, yet focused and having fun, then be a role model and have the right mindset yourself. You can use the Alter Ego exercise for yourself. 5. Blaming Coaches There has been a pretty big buildup of tension between coaches and parents, but we are all on the same team here and all want what's best for the kids and the team. 6. Tolerating a Toxic Culture The bottom line is, as a youth sport parent, you are part of the team and you contribute to the culture of the team. The question is: Are you helping or hurting the culture? 7. Neglecting Mental Skills If you want to help your kid with the mental game, then you need to encourage it, highlight why it is important, and understand the nuances of it. If you'd like to learn more about supporting your child's mental game, click the link below for our full set of Parent Resources (assessment, PDF download, and mini video series). Get Access to Parent Mental Game Resources

The 7 Biggest Mistakes Parents Make in Youth Sport2022-10-24T13:14:43-04:00

Coach Kyle Bergh

I wasn’t sure if I was going to be able to play. Not only in this game, but ever again. It was the start of the 2018 season, and I was on our team bus heading to a game in Truro Nova Scotia. We were having a decent start to our season, sitting well above .500 through 10 games. By some strange occurrence, I was playing really good hockey. I was over a point per game and playing on our top line - never a bad thing for a rookie in Jr. A. However, I had a dark cloud hanging over me. Heck, I felt like I was trapped IN a dark cloud. The prior year I missed half the season with post concussion symptoms. As a senior in highschool, I was barely able to pass my classes. Not to mention living in a constant state of fear. A constant state of unknowing. Unknowing if I would ever shake these symptoms. If I would ever feel like myself. And more importantly, be able to play at the level I sought to play at. But I’m a hockey player - I’ll find a way through this.. Right? Yep. That way forward was to shut up and continue playing. I was playing good hockey, so why would I stop? But here I am. Well over a year of feeling foggy, disconnected, and unsure of what to do. It was sitting on that bus that I decided I couldn’t go on like this. I needed to step back, get help, and get back to feeling normal again. That was all I wanted. I couldn’t continue to play in constant fear for my health. So I did seek help. I made a commitment to myself that I would step away from the game until I felt ‘normal’ again. And finally after 10 months away from the rink, I started to get on the right track. With dozens of doctor’s appointments and chiropractic sessions proving useless, a profound shift took place in me. I stopped looking outside of myself for answers and looked inward. That was the moment my healing process began. I started to notice the role I was having in my anxiety and fear of the unknown. I started to analyze my thinking. How were certain thoughts, feelings, and emotions I was having serving me? How were they hurting me? I began to accept the situation I found myself in as opposed to being a prisoner of my own mind. I became rigorously curious. I set forth on a relentless pursuit of learning about my own psychology. I read. I journaled. I worked with a mental performance coach. I began to observe the self imposed obstacles I had created for myself. This shift inward put me in the driver's seat. My mind was no longer using me; I was using it. What occurred following this process was something far superior to being able to continue on in my hockey career. [...]

Coach Kyle Bergh2022-10-19T10:57:27-04:00

Dr. Cassidy Preston Joins WIN: Champions in Life Podcast

Check out this episode of WIN: Championship Traits for Life, where Coach Cassidy talks about metrics for success. He talks about how overcoming adversity during his time as a hockey player has led him to a career as a Mental Performance Coach so that he can guide athletes to clearly understand what mental skills they need to work on and how to do it. In this episode, Coach Cassidy discusses: How sports inspired his career in helping others The mental skills elite athletes need Measuring success The importance of coaches being coachable, vulnerable, and growth-oriented If you would like to book a media or speaking engagement with Dr. Cassidy Preston, contact us.

Dr. Cassidy Preston Joins WIN: Champions in Life Podcast2022-09-14T14:18:24-04:00

3 Steps to Strengthen Self-Confidence

Confidence is a key to high performance. Unfortunately, confidence is often misunderstood and people overlook the most important part - self-worth. Most people struggle with self-confidence because the self-talk in their head is their own worst enemy. Here are 4 other reasons why people struggle with self-confidence: Yo-Yo Confidence: Tying their self-image to external results or praise Imposter Syndrome: Believing they are not worthy and/or don't belong Victim Mentality: Blaming others and not taking responsibility Negativity Bias: Constantly beating yourself up and overly focusing on the negatives However, you can go from being your own worst enemy to being your own best ally by following these 3 steps to strengthen your self-confidence: Step 1: Start with the Roots of the Tree - Self-Worth Self-worth is the foundation for confidence. How do you see yourself? Do you think you’re worthy of succeeding? If your self-worth isn’t sturdy and firmly grounded, you’ll have a hard time developing the rest of your tree. Remember, roots are underground. Your roots - your self-worth - should not be influenced by other people, results, or any other external factors. You are responsible for choosing your own self-worth. Step 2: Grow a Well-Rounded Tree The rest of the tree is made up of 3 parts: The trunk, the branches, and the leaves. The trunk represents your self-esteem (how you feel about yourself overall). The branches represent your self-confidence (how you feel about yourself and your abilities in different areas of life). The leaves represent self-efficacy (your belief in your ability to complete a specific task). It’s normal to have some branches be weaker than others, but it’s still important to make sure you’re building self-confidence and self-efficacy in different areas of your life to make your tree as well-rounded as possible. Step 3: Put in the Work and Own Your Capabilities Don’t make it a confidence problem if it’s a capabilities problem. Because of the world we live in these days, confidence tends to be heavily tied to praise and results, which creates a lot of variability in confidence and performance. When we focus on our capabilities, we’re putting in the work, owning our capabilities, and preparing well, which allows for more stability in both confidence and performance. The most important takeaway is that you are in control of your self-confidence. It’s a skill that you can develop if you work at it. Start by strengthening your self-worth, then grow a well-rounded tree by developing your self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-efficacy. Self-confidence is a skill that can be developed if you’re willing to put in the work and own your capabilities. Be your own best ally, not your own worst enemy. Book Your Free 1-on-1 Intro Session Today

3 Steps to Strengthen Self-Confidence2022-08-22T10:47:04-04:00

5 Rules of the Farmer

When it comes to coaching, it's important to think like a farmer. Here are 5 Rules to remember for your upcoming season: 1. Provide the best possible conditions for growth. Crops need nourishment. Not all crops need the same kind or amount, but they all need some. Be the person who creates and provides the conditions they need. 2. Don't blame the crops for not growing fast enough. Crops won't all grow at the same speed. Growth isn't linear. If you truly feel like you should be seeing faster growth, revisit Rule 1. 3. Yelling at the crops doesn't help anyone. Let's step back from the analogy for a second and just be blunt. Your players know when they made a mistake. They may not change their body language or overtly show their frustration, but they know. Athletes are notoriously hard on themselves. Instead of yelling about what they did wrong, provide direction so they can do it right next time. 4. Remove the weeds. Weeds take resources away from your crops. Crops cannot grow as efficiently and healthily if there are weeds in their way. It doesn't matter if that weed is the most skilled weed on your team. For the sake of team culture, psychological safety, trust, and success, you either need to coach that weed into a crop or remove the weed. 5. Don't uproot crops before they've had a chance to grow. Growth takes time. If crops are in a new environment and growing under different conditions, there may be an adjustment period. Be patient, revisit Rule 1, and give each crop an opportunity to grow. Rule 1 provides a foundation for, and is at the core of, Rules 2-5. Sometimes, it's difficult to know how to provide ideal conditions that meet the varying needs of your crops. The coaches at CEP Mindset can help you figure that out. If you're interested in learning more about how we can help you provide the best possible conditions for growth, schedule a free consult call with us. Book Your Free Coach Consult Call

5 Rules of the Farmer2022-08-10T13:12:01-04:00

The CEP Journey

Do you find yourself afraid to make mistakes, derailed by adversity, worried about what others think, or struggling with confidence?That means you are in your own head and not performing at your full capability - this is stage 1 of the Mindset Mountain. The CEP Journey up the mountain is made up of 5 stages: 1. In the River - In your own head, underperforming, & need to start mental training 2. Base Camp - Overcome initial mental blocks, quick spike in performance, & need to personalize the fundamentals 3. First Summit - In the Zone 85% of the time, elevated performance, & need to take ownership of your mindset & hold yourself to even higher standards 4. Final Ascent - Multiple games in the Zone 95% of the time, consecutive peak performances, & need to optimize your habits & mental toolbox 5. The Peak - Master your mindset, achieve consistent elite performance, & focus on maximizing your leadership skills Check out the diagram below to see how you can go from underperforming to achieving Consistent Elite Performance: When you use the right tools in the right way you will not only climb the mountain quickly & effectively, but you will reconnect to the love of your sport and develop life skills. Do you want to get to level 5 of the Mindset Mountain? If so, click below to get started with a FREE 30-minute introduction session. Book Your Free 1-on-1 Intro Session

The CEP Journey2022-12-07T15:41:25-05:00